listen, do you want to know a secret?
Aaron
While driving up to LA late last Sunday night, stuck in and endless sea of traffic that was moving about as fast as a petrified tree grows, I was feeling less than content. You might even say frustrated and I don’t think you’d be exaggerating…too much. And, of course, when one thing isn’t going my way I suddenly want to unleash the floodgates and trot out every little thing I’m not happy about, which certainly doesn’t make for a good driving experience. Fortunately, in such instances my reason usually kicks in and stops me before things get out of hand. “Are you really going to let a little thing like this bother you, something you won’t even remember tomorrow?” No, I finally decided, it probably isn’t worth it to get all stressed out about nothing, though I’ll probably still remember it tomorrow, if only to prove myself wrong, which still leaves me tied with myself 0 to 0. However, it’s not always that easy to deal with frustrations.Lately I’ve been in a sort of funk. Things have been going great, wonderful, swimmingly,ducky even. I have a better quality of life than the vast majority of people on the world. But at the same time, I feel like I’m not really going anywhere, not making progress, in the doldrums. It’s not really a satisfying feeling and I’m at a loss of what to do about it. I begin to second guess myself: am I becoming complacent and lazy? (well, probably) Am I going about this the wrong way? Am I even heading in the right direction? Does anything I do matter at all?!?! The last one is shouted at an unwary wall, who, in an act of shock and annoyance, doesn’t respond. (He’s probably still upset about that pillow I threw at him a while back. Man do walls know how to hold a grudge or what? I mean come on, it was just a pillow for crying out loud!) Well thanks wall, you’re no help. Thankfully, there is someone who can help, and that’s Paul. No, not that waiter at your local Denny’s (insightful as he may be), I’m talking about that guy from the Bible. More specifically, the guy who wrote a good chunk of the Bible and probably knows what he’s talking about. “What?” you say, “The Bible?” Yes, the Bible.Check this:
- Philippians 4:11-13 (NASB)I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
Did you notice how he said secret? I’m sure you did, that’s why I underlined it after all, (not that I think you’re unobservant or anything). He learned the secret, not just of how to eat right (useful as that is nowadays), but the secret how to live right. That’s some serious stuff! We’re talking about a guy who lived through some crazy things like beatings, shipwrecks, imprisonment, snakebites, full-scale riots, lashings, being left for dead (just to name a few). I haven’t even gone through one of those yet. I feel like if someone were to go up to him and say, “Hey Paul, you’ve gone through some pretty bad things, yet you still seem alright. How do you do it?” He would beckon them really close and cup his hand over his mouth, like he was going going to tell them The Colonel’s secret recipe for extra crispy chicken, but instead he’d say “be content in all things.” That’s it? No two drops of soy sauce, a pinch of paprika, baste it in a vat of honey mustard and let it sit under a full moon on the fourth day of the month while dancing a jig around it, singing the Canadian National Anthem (Eh?) and tossing cashews in the air? Just be content? Yes, be content.Sometimes the biggest and most important answers are also the simplest. It’s like in 2 Kings chapter 5 when Elisha tells Naaman how to cure his leprosy; dip in a river seven times. It sounds so simple that Naaman doesn’t even want to do it, in fact he’s a little TO’d about it. But once he finally hears some wisdom and gives it a try, he is immediately healed and is incredibly grateful.In a world that has so many solutions for how to live well, so many complex, convoluted, contradicting conclusions (+12 alliteration points), so many dead ends that lead us nowhere (as dead ends are known to do), there’s this one very simple answer: be content. We can believe it or not, but if we choose to live with a contentment in the context of the gospel, one that continues on despite circumstances, we will have lived fulfilled lives. I’m not saying we’ll achieve it perfectly, but we must have goals if we want to get anywhere, and it is a great thing to know that we can have such a satisfaction through Christ, who enables us to do all things according to His will, and I’d say that being content is definitely one of those things.Here’s a couple more useful verses I found that speak about being content:
- 1 Timothy 6:6-8 (NKJV)Now godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content.
- Hebrews 13:5 (NKJV)Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
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